Bis'mihi Ta'aaLa
A W L A A D
K E E
PARWARISH KA TAREEQAH
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【1】 Orat Ba wuzu Doodh PiLaawe, Q Ke Doodh Ka Badaa Asar Hota Hai.
【2】 Orto Ki Aadat hai Ke Bachcho Ko Kaheen Sipaahi Se, Kaheen BiLLi Se, Our Kaheen Our Daraawni Chizon Se So Ye Buri Baat Hai, Usse Bachcho Ka DiL Kamzor Hojata Hai.
【3】 Us Ke Doodh PiLaane Ke Liye Our Khana KhiLaane Ke Liye Waqt Muqarrar (Fix) Rakho, Ke Wo Tandurust Rahe.
【4】 Usko Saaf Suthruaa Rakho Ke Usse Tandurusti Rehti Hai.
【5】 Usko Bahut Banaao Sanghaar Mat Karo.
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【6】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To Uske Sir (Had) Par BaaL (Hair) Mat Badaao.
【7】 Agar Ladki (GirL) Hai, Usko Jab Tak Parde Me Rehne Ke Laaeq Na Hojaawe Zewar Mat Pehnaao, Usse Ek To Unki Jaan Ka Khatrah Hai, Doosre Bachpan Hii Se Zewar Ka Shokh DiL Me Hona Achha Nahi Hai.
【8】 Bachcho Ke Haath Se Gareebo Ko Khaana, Kapada, Paisa, Aur Aisee Cheeze DiLwaya Karo, Isi Tarah Khaane - Peene Ki Cheez Unke Bhai - Bahano Ko Ya Aur Bachcho Ko Taqseem Karaaya Karo, Take Unko Sakhaawat Ki Aadat ho,Magar Ye Yaad Rakho Ke Tum Apni Cheezen Unke Haath Se DiLwaaya Karo, Khood Jo Cheez Shariat Me Unhi Kii Ho Usko DiLwaana Kisi Ko Durust Nahi Hai.
【9】 Zyadah Khaane Waalo Ki Buraaee Uske Saamne Kiya Karo, Magar Kisi Ka Naam Lekar Nahi, BaLke Is Tarah Ke Dekho Beta Jo Koi Zyada Khata Hai To Log Usko Bail Samajte Hai.
【10】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To IsLaami Libaas Or Sufed (White) Kapde Ki Ragbat Uske DiL Me Paida Karo, Aur Ger Sharee , Rangeen Aur TakaLLuf Ke Libaas Se Usko Nafrat DiLaao, Ke Aise Kapde Ladkiya (Girles) Pehanti hai, Tum Maa Sha ALLah Mard Ho,Hamesha Uske Saamne Aisee Baate Karo.
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【11】 Agar Ladki (girl) Ho Jab Bhi Zyadah Maang, Chotee Aur Bahut TakaLLuf Ke Kapdo Ki Usko Aadat Mat DaaLo.
【12】 Uski Sab Zeede Puri Mat Karo, Qu Ke Us Se Mizaaj Bighadta Hai.
【13】 ChiLLa Kar BoLne Se Roko, Khas Kar Agar Ladki (Girl) Ho To ChiLLaane Par Khoob Daanto, Warna Badi Hokar Wahi Aadat Hojaawegi.
【14】 Jin Bachchon Ki Aadate Kharaab Hai, Ya Padne-Likhne Se Bhaagte Hai, Ya TakaLLuf Ke Khaane - Kapde Ke Aadi Hai, Unke Paas Baithne Se, Unke Saath KheLne Se Unko Bachaao.
【15】 In Baaton Se Yaani Gussa Karna, Juth BoLna, Kisi Ko Dekh Kar JaLna Ya Hirs Karna, Chori, Chughli khaana, Apni Baat Par Adaa Rehna, Khwah Makhaah Usko Banaana, Be Fayda Bahut Baate Karna, Be Baat Hansna,Zyada Hansna, Dhoka Dena, BhaLi Buree Baat Ka Na Sochna, Waghairah, Us Ko Nafrat DiLaati Raho, Aur Jab In Baato Me Se Koi Baat Hojaawe, Fauran Usko Roko, Aur Us Par Tanmbeeh Karo.
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【16】 Agar Koee Cheez Tod Fod De, Ya Kisi Ko Maar Baithe To Munaasib Sazaado, Taake Fir Aisaa Na Kare, Aisee Baato Me Pyaar DuLaar Bachcho Ko Kharaab Aur Kho Detaa Hai.
【17】 Bahut Sawere Mat Sone Do.
【18】 Sawere Jaaghne Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【19】 Jab ⑦ SaaL Ki Hojaawe Namaaz Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【20】 Jab Maktab (Dineeyaat Ka Madarsa) Me Jaane Ke QaabiL Hojaawe Sab Se PehLe Quraan Ki TaaLim Do.
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【21】 Jahaa Tak Ho Sake Deendaar Ustaad Se Padwaao.
【22】 Maktab Me Jaane Me Kabhi Reaayat Mat Karo.
【23】 Kisii Kisii Waqt Un Logo Ko Nek Logon Ki Hikaayate (Stories) Sunaya Karo.
【24】 Unko Aisi Kitaabe Mat Padne, Aur Mat Dekhne Do Jin Me Aashiqee Maashooqee Ki Baate, Ya Shari'at Ke KhiLaaf Mazmoon Ho, Ya Aur Behudaah Qisse Ya GazaLen Waghairah Ho. {Aur Aaj Ke Waqt Me TeLevison ,L c d, Computer Aur MobiLe Waghaira Me Aawara Aur Be Hayaa Aur Fuhash Program Mat Dekhne Do }.
【25】 Aisi Kitaabe Padwaao Jin Me Deen Ki Baaten Aur Dunyaa Ki Zaruri Kaarwaaee Aa Jaawe.
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【26】 Maktab Se Aa jaane Ke Baad Kisi Qadar DiL BehLaane Ke Liye Usko KheL Ne Ki Ijaazat Do, Taake Uski Tabiyat Kund Na Hojaawe, Lekin KhaiL Aisaa Ho, Jis Me Koi Gunaah Na Ho, Chot Lagne Ka Andeshaa Na Ho.
【27】 Aatish Baazi Ya Baajah, Ya FuzooL Cheeze Khareed Ne Ke Liye Paise Mat Do.
【28】 KheL Tamaashe, Jaadu Aur Circus waghairah DikhLaane Ki Aadat Mat DaLwaao.
【29】 AwLaad Ko Zaroor Koi Aisa Hunar Sikhaado Jis Se Zaroorat Aur Museebat Ke Waqt Chaar Paise HaasiL Kar Ke Apna, Apni Beewi Aur Apne Bachcho Ka Guzara Kar Sake.
【30】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Itnaa Likhna Padna SikhLaado Ke Zaroori Paper Aur Khutoot Aur Ghar Ka Hisaab Likh Sake Aur Pad Sake.
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【31】 Bachcho Ko Aadat DaaLo Ke Apna Kaam Apne Haath Se Kiya Kare, Apaahaj Aur Sust Na Hojaawe, Unko Kaho Ke Raat Ko Bichhona Apne Haath Se Bichhawe, Subah Ko Sawere Uth Kar Teh Kar Ke Ehtiyaat Se Rakhde, Kapdo Ki Ghathdi Apne Entizaam Me Rakhe, Fataa Ho To Khud Si Liya Kare, Kapde Khwah Maile Ho Ya UjhLe Aisi Jagah Rakhe Jaha Keede Aur Chuhe Ka Dar Na ho, Agar Dhoban Ko De To Khud Gin Kar De Aur Likhde Aur Ginkar PadtaaL Kar Ke Le,
【32】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Takeed Karo Ke Jo Zewar Tumhaare Badan Par Hai, Raat Ko Sone Se PehLe Aur Subah Jab Uthe To Dekh BhaaL Kar Liya Kare.
【33】 Ladkiyo (GirLs) Se Kaho Ke Jo Kaam Khaane Pakaane, Seene Pirone, Kapde Rangne, Cheez Bunne, Ka Ghar Me Huwa Kare Usme Ghaor Kar Ke Dekhaa karo Ke Kun Kar Ho Raha Hai.
【34】 Jab Bachche Se Koi Baat Khoobi Ki Zaahir Ho, Us Par Khub Shaabash Do Aur Pyaar Do, BaLke Usko Kuch Enaam Bhi Do, Taake Uska DiL Badhe, Aur Jab Uski Koi Buri Baat Dekho , PehLe Tanhaaee Me Usko Samjhaao, Ke Dekho Buree Baat Hai, Dekhne WaaLe DiL Me Kya Kehte Hoge, Aur Jis Jis Ko Khabar Hogi Wo DiL Me Kya Kahega, Khabar Daar Fir Aisa Mat Karna, Nek Bakht Ladke Aisa Nahi Kiya Karte, Aur Agar Fir Wahi Kaam Kare To Munaasib Sazaado.
【35】 Maa Ko Chaahiye Ke Bachche Ko Baap Se Daraati Rahai.
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【36】 Bachche Ko Koi Kaam Chhupa Kar Mat Karne Do,KhaiL Ho Ya Khaana Ho, Jo Kaam Chhupa Kar Karega Samaj Jhaao Ke Wo Usko Buraa Samajhtaa Hai, So Agar Wo Buraa Hai To Usse chhudaao, Aur Agar Achha Hai, Jaise Khaana Peena To Usse Kaho Ke Sab Ke Saamne Khaaye Piye.
【37】 Koi Kaam Mehnat Ka Uske Zimme Muqarrar Kardo, Jis Se Sihat Aur Himmat Rahe, Susti Na Aane Paawe, Ek Aadh K.M. ChaLna Waghairah.
【38】 ChaLne Me Taaqeed Karo Ke Bahut JaLdi Na ChaLe, Nigaah Uthaa Kar Na Chale, Raaste Se TakLeef Dene WaaLi Cheeze Hatata Huwa ChaLe.
【39】 Usko Aajeezi Ekhtiyaar Karne Ki Aadat DaaLo, Zubaan Se , ChaaL Se Aur Bartaao Se Shaikhi Na Bigharne Paawe, Yaha Tak Ke Apne Ham Umar Bachcho Me Baith Kar Apne Kapde, Makaan, Khaandan, Kitaab wa QaLam Aur Dawaat Aur Takhti Tak Ki Taareef Na Karne Paawe.
【40】 Kabhi Kabhi Usko Do Chaar Rupiye De Diya Karo Ke Apni Marzi Ke Muwaafiq Kharch Kare, Magar Usko Ye Aadat DaaLo Ke Koi Cheez Tum Se Chhupa Kar Na Khareede.
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【41】 Unko Khaane - Peene Aur Sone Ke Aadab SikhLaao.
【42】 Rozindah Kiye Jaane WaaLe Kaamo Ki Masnoon Duwaaye SikhLaao.
【43】 Apne Se Badon Ka Ehtiraam Karne Ki Taaqeed Karo.
【44】 Har Kaam SaLeeqah Bandi (Diciplin) Se Karne Ki Taaqeed Karte Raho.
【45】 Unko Bachpan Hi Se Duwaa Maangne Ki Aadat DaLwaao.
【46】 Unko MehfiL Me Uthne Baithne Ka Tareeqah Aur Aadab BatLaao.
【47】 Unko Maa-Baap, Daada-Daadi, Naana-Naani, Anna, Aur Bade Bhai Bahan Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【48】 Qaraabat Daaron Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【49】 Aam MusaLmaano Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【50】 Unko Hamsaaya (Padosi) Ke Huqooq Bhi BatLaado.
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ALLah Subhaanahu Ta'aaLa Ham Sab Ko Apni AwLaad Ki IsLaami Ta'aLeem Wa Tareeq Ke Mutaabiq Tarbiyat Karne Ki Tofeeq Marhamat Farmaaye, Aameen Ya RabbaL AaLameen.
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HADITH ME HE K JISKE YAHA LADKI PEDA HOTI HE TO ALLAH TALA USKE YAHA FARISHTE BHEJTE HE. FARISHTE AA KAR KEHTE HE, AE GHAR WALO! TUM PAR SALAMATI HO,(PHIR) WO BACHI KO APNE PARO KE SAYE ME LE LETE HE OR USKE SIR PAR HATH PHERTE HUWE KEHTE HE.: YE KAMZOR JAAN HE JO EK KAMZOR JAAN SE PEDA HUWI,JO IS BACCHI KI DEKH BHAL OR PARWARISH KAREGA QIYAMAT TAK ALLAH KI MADAD USKE SATH RAHEGI.(Tabrani)